Sex Toys for Men

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December 18, 2023

On December 18, 2023

Utilizing sex toys into your intimate experiences can greatly enchance the sexual enjoyment you receive when pleasuring yourself or getting intimate with your partner. Regrettably, many men experience a sense of stigma or social pressure against using sex toys in the bedroom. However, sex toys designed specifically for men (think male masturbators or others), are made to boost arousal, improve pleasure, and add fun to any sexual experience, according to Todd Baratz, a certified sex therapist.

Are you still on the fence about using sex toys? Don’t be! Andrew Smiler, PhD, has noted that patients often find greater happiness in their sexual relationships when they introduce more variety, a factor where male sex toys can play a significant role. For men, these toys not only diversify solo experiences past the way you’ve been jerking off the same way since your teens, but also bring a fresh dynamic to partner interactions, offering new ways to enchance mutual pleasure!

Types of sex toys for men

You’re in luck if you’re looking to add a new sex toy to your bedroom collection. There are a ton of possibilities available these days, and in this blog, we aim to find the one that is best suitable for your needs.

Penis toys

While you think the name might make this category a little obvious, we promise you that you will be surprised by how many there are! As the name might suggest, these are toys that stimulate any portion of your penis, generally by stroking or thrusting, fall under this category. Considering that you have presumably had a lot of experience with this type of self-gratification, they are rather intuitive. The most well-liked ones are broken down as follows:

Male masturbators

Male masturbators are probably the most popular sex toys for men, and for good reason; they’re easy to use, comes in every shape imagineable and THEY WORK! Due to the vast quantity there are of these, we have picked our favourite tools:

Fleshlights (fleshjack)

If you know about male sex toys, you probably know about fleshlights, which are the most popular sex toys in the world for men. One of the first male sex toys, the Fleshlight is named for the material that resembles flesh on its inner sleeve, making it feel very authentic compared to a real vagina (or ass). They are also made for the gay audience, called Fleshjacks, which are basically the same thing. If you ever considered getting one, we have a few good reasons for you:

Creates the sensation of actual sex due to realistic feel.
They are low maintenance, and very easy to clean and keep for a long time!
Small and discreet, they are not like other male sex toys, these can easily be hid away in the closet.

Open-ended masturbators

Open-ended male masturbators are ideal if you’re looking for a sex toy that can be used for both solo play, or together with a partner. Similarly to the fleshlight, the open-ended masturbators, work like a stroker, with very soft material that will adapt to your body heat, making it feel very realistic during solo play. However, during couples play is where its genius come to play, turning any ordinary blowjob into what we imagine heaven feels like, or just letting the penis being the center of attention during intimacy with your partner. If you are not yet sold on this toy, here is a summary of why we believe it is one of the greatest inventions in recent time for men:

Can be used for jerking off, but can also play a key part in couples play
One of the easiest sex toys to clean on the market, as it does not collect cum.

Cock rings

A regular ring is for your fingers, this is one is a toy that wraps around your cock leading to stronger, bigger and better erections. Is that all? NO, there is more; a lot of users of cockrings have said that they experience more intense orgasms, and also lasting longer in bed. Like it is with most safe sex toys, these are usually made out of a very soft silicone material. If you are a bit more hardcore, or perhaps just want to feel more hardcore, then they also come in other materials like metal or leather. If you’re not an avid cock ring user, then we recommend sticking to the silicone ones. So which ones are there, and if you are looking to use one with a partner then what one should you get? We have got you covered:

App-controlled cock ring

You might ask yourself if science has gone too far, but far from it. The cock ring on the photo is a Diamo ring, made out of silicone. While it is not promised, the makers of the ring designed it, to 1) help you last longer and 2) make your orgasms more powerful. The fun of having a cock that is app-controlled, is that you are able to include your partner in the bedroom, or from abroad, as it can be controlled via an app. It has multiple speeds, and you can set the pattern that you like, for an even wilder experience. It is a little pricey, compared to a regular cock ring, so keep that in mind!

Traditional cock ring

If you are not willing to pay up for a more expensive sex toy, then there is definitely nothing wrong with a traditional cock ring made out of silicone! These are easier to wear while penetrating, they do not require battery, and if you do lose it, then it is easy on the wallet to acquire a new one. This incredible, yet simple ring, helps beginners get started by demonstrating how amazing these are, while also being a lot less frightening. There are instances when it’s really preferable to take things slowly!

Anal toys

Anal sex toys might sound scary to a lot of men, especially straight ones, however, anal toys precisely target the prostate which gives an orgasm that is full and utter amazing. Think about it, there is a reason men can cum this way, and a prostate orgasm is the best orgasm a man can experience. Positive feelings are sent from head to toe throughout the entire body.

Anal sex has the power to elevate your enjoyment to new levels—as long as you take cleanliness seriously and allow yourself to experiment without fear of criticism. If you are curious on how to prepare for anal sex for men, then we have an article on it here. Now lets get into the best and different toys there are:

Butt plugs

Butt plugs are simple to use, and easy to get started with for men who are new to being anally pleasured. They are inserted into the anus, providing your anus with a fuller feeling that is not overly intense, but still intense enough for it to be enjoyable. Furthermore, it does require continious penetration, which is also ideal for men who are not all too familiar with anal toys. They come in various sizes, allowing you to work up an appetite. A big perk is that they can be used for solo masturbation, but also while you are having sex. To use them, lubricate your anus and gently press them against it till they penetrate.

Prostate massagers

Prostate massagers are used similarly to a butt plug, but that is where the similarities end. The form of prostate massagers is particularly designed to reach the P-spot, setting them apart from butt plugs. The majority resemble thumbs in form, with a bulbous tip and a slender arm; many vibrate, and some even come with an attached vibrating arm for added stimulation. Apply them similarly to a butt plug.